Wednesday, November 14, 2012

The Wonderful World Wide Web & Wedding Technology


Seems that just about everything you need to pull off a wedding can be found or bought online these days!  I’m certain that planning a wedding before Google arrived meant asking friends and families for advice and shopping locally to get what you needed.  Now, you, my reader, are online on some sort of magical device that is letting you read this.  I too am inundated with technology and have a job where the Wonderful World Wide Web is only a click away at any given time.  In addition I have this thing called a Smart Phone (iPhone - another theme) that is never far from my hands.  These in particular lead me to utilizing this WWW tool, and some other techie devices, quite often.


Here are a few of the ways that the WWW and new advances in technology have assisted Fletch and me thus far in our wedding planning endeavor:

Email (Gmail specifically) has assisted us in announcing our engagement, gathering guest information, sending out our save the dates, sending newsletters to our bridal party and parents, as well as communicating with our vendors.  I can even e-fax documents straight from my computer (through email)!  This is how we reserved the wedding venue and signed other various vendor contracts.  I also use my Google Calendar and Contacts religiously.  Honestly, where would we be without email?!

Internet Search Engines, particularly Google (do you see a theme here?), have aided in my research of venues, styles, color schemes, budget ideas, attire options, etiquette, recommendations on wedding professionals and even accommodations for out of town guests.  I learned how to apply for our wedding license and how to have our friend get ordained online in order to become what our county calls a “One-Time Deputy Marriage Commissioner” for him to legally marry us {VERY important step in this whole process}!  I found my Month of Wedding Coordinator online through her blog and our engagement party invitations were ordered online.  Besides all of that, just about every vendor we use has a website of their very own!

While I haven't partaken of e-commerce for anything physical for the wedding yet, I thought I should mention that you can purchase just about anything you want or need from the inter-webs.  You can buy new or used items.  I should probably break this out into another post at some point, because really the possibilities are endless!  Anything from decorations, clothing, accessories, shoes, jewelry, rings, bow ties, favors, invitations, photo albums, cake toppers, toasting flutes, etc.

I use something called Dropbox to organize all of my wedding documents, contracts, I Do To-Do Lists, etc.  This is a “cloud” device which means that I can access the information in our Dropbox folder from any computer that is linked to the same folder.  Fletch and I can share, view and edit documents at the same time without having to email them back and forth.  You could do something similar with Google Drive (previously called Goggle Docs), but I like the Dropbox formula better.

Next, we purchased a subscription to a Wedding Website (Wed-site, if you will) that includes behind the scene features like: uploading our contacts from our email accounts to create guest lists (for all wedding related events), budgeting tools that are integrated with our vendor list, including reminders of when payments are due to vendors and a task calendar (which I haven’t been able to make sync with my Google calendar yet).  The actual Wed-site that our guests see has some fun aspects to it, such as photo albums, a link to our registry, a song request section, a guestbook, links to hotels, directions from Google Maps and an online RSVP tracking feature for later!  By the way, Fletch and I put the content together ourselves and I even got to do some very rudimentary coding, but I felt very techie doing it!!

Speaking of our registry, we did a couple of things that I think are neat and a little different.  First we did the traditional gun scanner at a big box store route, which was fun.  Then, I went online and found two online registry companies that allowed me to 1) add items from any store around the world that has a website and 2) gave us an option to have a honeymoon registry added as well.  Both companies had internet add-ons that made it very easy to click a button and add items to the registry when shopping online.  Both had iPhone Apps, so I could add and delete items on the go from my iPhone.  We ended up using MyRegistry.com and could even customize it with our picture and a message to our guests.

Some of the other Apps that I love to use for my wedding adventures include Big Day Lite – tells me how many days until our wedding!; Venmo, which is a social version of PayPal where you can pay someone with just their phone number; Weddingawkr – which I used to look at all the time, but now I favor Pinterest* more…; Pandora - which gives me musical inspiration and when I find a song that I might want at the wedding, I make a note in my phone – nifty!; and Google Blogger (but it’s not very user friendly, sorry Google).  Other Apps that I use regularly, but have already mentioned above are: Gmail, Google Calendar, Safari/Goggle, Dropbox, MyRegistry.com & the other big box registry.  And if it wasn't obvious these all sync between my iPhone and online perfectly :)


In mentioning Apps, I should talk about the iPad at home (and we have a couple of iPods too).  An iPad that I don’t use regularly because it’s hooked up to all of Fletch’s accounts, but that I’m considering using at the wedding in one or two ways.  First is that we may use it to conduct our wedding ceremony and secondly I am considering using it as a camera for a photo booth!  I’ll blog about the whole photo booth idea and photo/video sharing another time.

This brings me to the Social Media phenomenon.  I don't really consider Facebook to be a "wedding" tool, however if you wanted to use it that way, you could.  I follow our photographer and my stylist because I think they are great at what they do, and I think we could be friends after the wedding - they are interesting ladies.  Facebook now has ads that mirror what  you "Like", so I frequently see wedding related ads, but nothing really speaks to me.  I mostly use Facebook to see and share pictures and keep tabs on my friends and family.  I mentioned Weddingawkr earlier and if you haven't looked at it, you should; it highlights the best wedding blogs and stories plus it updates regularly.  *But, I said that I favor Pinterest more and here's why: you get to save the images that you like on a virtual bulletin board and that "Pin" will take you to the direct source, so to the video, article or picture, that was originally posted online.  It reminds me of bookmarking, but it's prettier, since you see the title picture on your "Board".  It's a great way to organize your thoughts, things that you want, things that you want to do or ideas to try later.  I use it as a source of inspiration and a place to look at pictures that make me laugh {Cats in Clothes, anyone?}.  I currently have 19 different Boards related to wedding stuff; 34 total - shows you where my current interests lie {no surprise here, right?}.  Pinterest is a sort of addiction, you can follow your friends or other people (strangers) with similar interests to yours and you can search very general categories of interest.  The categories continuously refresh based on what people pin or "Repin", so there is a lot of new content constantly.  It's fun for all sorts of things - I have pinned recipes, fashion that I want to try out and vacation spots.  The other day, in the wedding category  I saw a picture that said “Pinterest wasn’t around when I got married, I want a do-over!”  Do you ever feel like that?  If you had Pinterest or any of these other technologies available to you when you were planning your wedding, would it have made things easier for you?  Would you have done things differently?  Are there other technological tools out there that you're using that I didn't mention or may not know about?

Future Mrs. Fletcher

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